Can the letter wait until he is ready to read it?

Yes: the access code does not expire on receipt. He will open the letter when he feels able to.

Can I also write to my children?

Yes — one message per recipient, up to 5 or 10 depending on your plan. Many parents write to each one separately.

Are my messages editable?

Yes, at any time before delivery: content, title, recipient.

A letter to your husband, for afterwards

We rarely say the essential to the person we share our life with — we assume they know. This letter is the chance to say it explicitly, once, forever.

What to put in the letter

What he means to you. Say it with examples, not generalities: what he did, what he is, what you built together.

Your most vivid memories. The beginnings, the struggles, the victories, the silly moments that still make you laugh. Be specific: details bring things back to life.

Your confidence in him for what's next. If he must raise your children alone, run the house, carry everything: tell him you know he can do it. Those words will matter enormously.

The practical. Accounts, contacts, documents, what you had in mind for this or that. Slip the useful among the emotional.

How delivery works

You log in every 30 days — a single click.
Reminders are sent at days 30, 37, and 44. At day 51, a trusted contact, if you have one, is asked to confirm or deny your death. A confirmation starts a 24-hour window in which you can still log in to cancel release; if there is no trusted contact, release can proceed at day 51.
He receives a single-use access code, separately, to open it when he is ready.

Encrypted at rest, one recipient, one-time code: your letter stays between the two of you.